On Mon, Jul 07, 2014 at 12:44:15AM -0400, Marina Zhurakhinskaya wrote:
On Sat, Jul 5, 2014 at 11:43 AM, Christophe Fergeau <cfergeau gmail com> wrote:Hey Marina, Thanks for coming up with this detailed policy. On Sat, Jul 05, 2014 at 01:08:07AM -0400, Marina Zhurakhinskaya wrote:Having a specific and actionable anti-harassment policy is important for making the conference a safer space for everyone.Fwiw, I disagree with the wording, especially the "specific and actionable" and "safer for everyone".Specific policy spells out behaviors of common concern and lets people know these are not acceptable at the conference. Actionable means that people enforcing the policy know what to do if a violation occurs. These both have to be clear ahead of time to minimize the uncertainty during the event. The policy makes the event a safer space for everyone because it helps people understand what are unacceptable behaviors,
Except that the organizers/the board can decide by themselves that something not listed in the document is to be considered as harassment anyway...
so that they avoid them, and also provides support structures to the victims in terms of knowing who to talk to and knowing that organizers will help ensure the harassment stops if it does occur.
In my mind, there is not much point in talking about a anti-harassment policy if it's not going to be enforced.
"GUADEC is a welcoming and friendly event, during which GNOME contributors often become friends and make resolves to come to the next one. The behaviors outlined in this policy do not commonly happen, but are spelled out to help ensure all attendees have the same expectation of a safe and friendly environment."
Sounds quite positive, though I'd drop the "safe".
Sexual language and imagery create a sexualized environment, which is uncomfortable to some people
Should I make a list of things that make me uncomfortable so that we add them to the policy? It's also quite easy to find non-sexual images that will make a lot of people very uncomfortable, even sick but which are not forbidden by this policy (some parts of 4chan are a good source for that).
and can make other harassing behavior seem permissible.
I think the policy is already abundantly clear that any unwanted sexually-tainted attention is not welcome.
The word harassment in the name of the policy is used here in a broad sense to include the actions that can make someone uncomfortable, but are not directed towards anyone in particular.
For what it's worth this is news to me, and I don't think it achieves what you describe. It bans one very specific item which will make some people uncomfortable, it does not even try to address non-sexual things (religion, blood, meat, politics, ...) which could also make some people uncomfortable. I understand why it's here, especially given where it comes from, but I don't think this belongs in an anti-harassment policy, at least not this way.
The rest of the text seems good to me, longer though still very official, and potentially scary ("may I get in trouble if I make this not politically correct joke to this person I've started to know a bit better since the beginning of GUADEC? let's be safe and boring, just in case").Making jokes that are funny at the expense of other people and seeing whether your new friends find them funny or offensive is in fact not a good idea.
You have added the "at the expense of other people" part when answering, I did not mention that in my email.
We can make the sentence about consequences more clear in the policy, as following:
Well, if people get there, they will have already been subjected to the very official and legal sounding tone of the policy, which is what can make the policy a bit scary and chilly imo. Since the policy is trying to be extensive, people will be inclined to self-censorship even for behaviour that would not be an issue at all, even more so for newcomers who don't know 'us' very well yet. I was not really suggesting changing the paragraph about the consequences. Christophe
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