Shall beGio::SimpleActionGroup belongs to glibmm, not to gtkmm. Both gtkmm 2.x and gtkmm 3.x use glibmm versions from the glibmm-2.4 ABI series. I don't understand how you can do what you say you do in gtkmm 2.x. Haven't you used Gtk::ActionGroup and Gtk::Action? Something like
Glib::RefPtr<Gtk::ActionGroup> m_refActionGroup;
...
m_refActionGroup->get_action("PlacepieceBlackPawn")->set_sensitive(row != 0 && row != 7);
Gtk::ActionGroup and Gtk::Action are deprecated in gtkmm 3.x and removed in gtkmm 4.x. How do you add the Gio::SimpleAction to the Gio::SimpleActionGroup? I suppose you have a Glib::RefPtr<Gio::SimpleAction> refPlacepieceBlackPawn = ...... or a m_refActionGroup->add_action("PlacepieceBlackPawn"); that returns a Glib::RefPtr<Gio::SimpleAction>. Then it would be easy to save that Glib::RefPtr<Gio::SimpleAction>, so you don't need lookup_action(). If you prefer lookup_action(), this should work in gtkmm 3.x, but not in gtkmm 4.x: auto simple_action = Glib::RefPtr::cast_dynamic<Gio::SimpleAction>(m_refActionGroup->lookup_action("PlacepieceBlackPawn"));
auto simple_action = Glib::RefPtr<Gio::SimpleAction> ::cast_dynamic(m_refActionGroup->lookup_action("PlacepieceBlackPawn"));
if (simple_action) simple_action->set_enabled(row != 0 && row != 7);